Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Letter excerpts from October 26


Hehehe so a while ago you sent me two stickers of a bat and I have been faithfully saving them these many weeks until the Halloween season approached and I could appropriately place them on an Octobery Fun day. Hahaha-but then I got your package!!!!! Fully off Halloween goodies and plenty of festive stickers to go around. Heheheh it was so much fun to open the packages with Sister Gandolph. We both love you so much and I don't think there is any mistaking that you live in North Carolina and so does she :) We are still planning on get togethers.
The family book was so cute! Very thoughtful and a great memior to that time of my mission! :) and as always it was so good to hear your continual support. You have a way of gathering the family all together. yay! OH! and Benjamins note said that I am his missionary. Sweetest thing ever! I am so happy that I can be an example to him!
Ok so my daily routine!
P-days start at 10 am after our normal morning routine. We go email at the library that is about 15 min away and then get groceries and then I like to come home and journal and have time to write letters or organize my desk or get some extra studying in. Then at 5 we start our tracting (which happens everyday at 5) and go until 7. We invite people to come on church tours and offer any service. No one really takes us up on the service opportunity and when we see miracles! We are able to give an INSTA tour! (meaning they come down to the church building right then) The rest of the evening is spent in teaching appointments with investigators or less active members of the ward. At 9 we hope to be home and plan for our day tomorrow for 30 min...which usually is like 40+ We update records for who we saw that day. Then we can get ready for bed! Unwind! and retire by 10:30.
Tuesday morning! 6:30 we get up and exercise for 30 minutes. Then I shower first and get ready have breakfast. Missionaries are supposed to study from 8-10 but our Zone Mettings on Tuesday cut into this and We have to leave our house by 8 30 to get to the building on time. so then we have 3 hour meeting. then we have lunch with ward members at the building who have met there for service/humanitarian projects. then we continue on our day with teaching appointments, less active stop bys, or preferably church tours! then from 5-7 we tract. At 7 we meet two relief society sisters for spilts. I leave Sister Gandolph :( :( hahaha until the end of the night. and then the normal things happen from 9-10:30.
Wednesday we go to an old folks home for about and hour and a half and help them do group exercises and talk to them (hehehhe I picked out this weekly service and ... it's my favorite!) then we visit, make phone calls (arranging splits, appointments, getting fellowship for investigator lessons) while we drive around all day. we usually have a meal appointment with a member for about an hour, visits, church tours! and home.
Thursday from 10-12 we have weekly planning (go over the progress made on our goals, update records, make records) and have companionship inventory to discuss any needs, problems, etc. then the normal routine continues until 7 when we go on spilts with two of the ward missionaries.
Friday is completely normal.
Saturday our study time is interrupted with a Missionary meeting attended by the Bishop and all the ward missionaries at 8 usually at Bishop's home. then things are normal except our 5-7 tracting can be anytime during the day and we try to use saturdays to do outside street contacting (not door to door) its pretty awkward, difficult to make productive, but fun with sister Gandolph beside me helping, and being awesome!
Sunday we leave our house by 7 30 to get to the church for our meeting with Ward Council at 8. then Church at 9. then a meal appt somewhere in the day and tracting for 2 hours somewhere in the day.
That's my week! and the best day is when we give church tours. Chruch tours take precendence over anything else! yay! we do everything we can to have members present at every lesson with investigators. it is such an important thing: to have them have a friend and give us someone else to call on for answers or testimonies etc.
So hilarious thing!!!!!!!!! In Silverdale Gandi and I came up with a great idea to go to the park in a huge book of mormon suit and give away Book of Mormons/invite church tours! We didn't get around to that but now that we're here in the Harbor for HALLOWEEN!!! Perfect time right!
Well. So after telling our meal appointment that we were thinking of dressing up for Haloween as the Bible and the Book of Mormon with a sign saying "Why can't we be friends" (hehehehe) they told us that the harbor does this huge city trick-or-treat thing and thousands of people go around the shops in downtown. Perfect opportunity! Let's go down there an hand out candy/pass along cards in our costumes!
Hahha so...........our plans eventually arrived at getting the approval of our Mission President. So I called him. (aghh!) and asked if we could carry out our plan for outside finding. He told me that didn't seem fitting for the dignified representatives we were. mm ok. so no dress up:( 
But then! Later that night we were calling him to tell him we had found 2 New (investigators) by the end of that week {as he had instructed sister Gandolph in her personal interview at R+R on Friday} -oh r and r is Return and Report...happens every 3 months- and after we told him of the miracles:
Chase* the woodcarver- was outside having a really hard time because his German sheperd friend he'd had for 18+ years was dying. He ASKED US TO PRAY before we said anything about God (other than mentioned our names+tags) we set up a church tour with him! He came on the church tour 3 days later and told us on the tour that he recognized that we were sent from God and said he wouldn't have anything against being baptized. He would trust any of us to baptize him.
2 Mary*- we said where we were from and she came right out of the door and said oh! oh! I've been meaning to come to your church for over a year! Her boss is LDS and she promised him that she would. She wants a church where she can ask questions and learn. She came on a church tour and she said she would read the Book of Mormon before coming to church the next day!
YAY! So President was very happy and said "we are celebrating" and then handed the phone to Sister Bowen so we could tell her too. hahha. Then we asked President about our amended Haloween plan: still pass out candy and cards just not dressed up. He approved and said to dress warm and tell him how it goes.
WOOt Woot! hehehe I am so excited. Sister Gandolph and I are still going to dress up for the ward party though. YAY! It's a chili cook-off competition. I love chili and really am craving it. Silly I know and who would have guessed but I really like chili. (well obviously not grease-fest chili with meat oozing out everywhere..but hearty beans..yummo!)

*Names have been changed for privacy

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We ate with Sarah* and her family on Thursday and she died on Saturday morning. She is the mother of 4 children under the age of 12. Her husband was away, and her son found her. The ward has done so much to step in for comfort and mourn with those that mourn. I have been blessed with fullness to share with those who have an emptiness. 
Eccl 3:1-8

"1 To every thing there is a aseason, and a btime to every purpose under the heaven:

  2 A atime to be born, and a time to bdie; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

  3 A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

  4 A time to weep, and a time to alaugh; a time to bmourn, and a time to dance;

  5 A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

  6 A time to aget, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

  7 A time to arend, and a time to sew; a time to keep bsilence, and a time to speak;

  8 A time to love, and a time to ahate; a time of war, and a time of peace."

Another miracle: Hannah* is extremely impressionable. We are teaching her and she was going to go ask her preacher about prophets and His authority. So on the day she was supposed to go, we prayed so hard and so much for her. Every prayer asked for something, anything to get in the way of her going to see her preacher. and she got Sick! Yep! and now she is scheduled for baptism on the 17th! She needs the Holy Ghost, for he is the comforter and the director. He speaks truly.

Monday, October 18, 2010

Letter excerpts from October 18



SISTER GANDOLPH!!!!!!!!!!!!! When I first heard this on the telephone...I couldn't understand. What? REally?? ummm ok!?? WHOA, why?!! I'm so happy!! I know that sister Gandolph and I are to work wonders in Gig Harbor. We are here to baptize and harvest souls for  Jesus. I am grateful for the trust that he places in me and sister Gandolph. I will work so hard to bring about the wonderful situation the Lord has created for us. Where much is given much is required and that IS the case here. It seems that every moment I understand and can see that yes the Lord put us together so that we could do this, and be here, and help this happen. So much goodness reigns from above. I know the Lord cares about his children and will always do what he sees best for them. It may seem odd that sister Gandolph and I are together again but that won't stop inspiration from reaching and being executed through President Bowen. It won't stop the spirit from witnessing to us (me and gandolph) that there is an eternal purpose that we are together again. I KNOW the Lord is behind this work. It is truly His. On His errand I am entitled (and daily receive) His help.

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That reminds me! I've been meaning to mention to you for two transfers now! ....  Do you know the Graventstein apple? Well I had some in Washington and I guess they are an older apple and hard to find in the stores (I've never seen them before and you know I know the store apples) SO! They are delicious and firm and flavorful! so tasty. I think they top the Jonathans I love (if that tells you anything) .
 
It's so nice to hear that Beaver Ward has put out so many missionaries. It really was such a blessing to grow up there. I know the Lord put our family there on purpose and I am grateful for the things I learned there. I am proud to say I am from Beaver Dam! The people there are so genuine and loving; it truly is a community centered on the principles of the gospel! Tell the ward hi for me and that the Lord is working miracles today! Tell them to remember the significant role the gospel plays in their life and don't be afraid to share the best news with everyone!
 
Can you believe how wonderful it is that I am serving with sister Gandolph again!? Wow! The Lord truly inspires events!!! We have already started to play miracles for the Lord. We are his instruments as we strive to be obedient and work hard together. It is so much fun laughing together and comforting each other.
 
Faith is so powerful! It is truly a principle of power. The creation was wrought By Faith!! Surely we can each exhibit a little more faith in our own lives to overcome challenges that face us and work wonders. My faith excercising (and thus building) experience of the week was so great: We wanted to give an insta-tour (invite someone to come and tour the church building RIGHT THEN) this was our saturday goal. Every prayer we said included this desire in it. Our minds were continually thinking about it and planning for it. Saturday closed without seeing a church tour. Sunday came and I didn't fill in the totals for the week on church tours given because...hmmm I hope we get one today! AND THEN WE DID! We were being obedient and faithful, talking to everyone in our path - even when it meant stopping the car in the middle of the road to talk to two people walking in the opposite direction. The timing worked itself perfectly due to our following the spirit the 2 hours leading up to our meeting DJ. He and his friend came out of his house, we chatted, the friend left, and we invited DJ to come. He came. The tour was one of the best we've ever given. A ward was still meeting in the building and things might have seemed distracting and busy but the spirit was testifying to his heart the whole time. He accepted the Book of Mormon and the sacred revelation that it is and agreed to learn more about being baptized. We will meet with him on Tuesday with his member neighbor friend who came on the tour with us (insta fellowship!) ohhhh jolly! What a blessing it is to be worthy and ready for the Lord to bless us with a miracle. Miracle in the Bible Dictionary is defined and a manifestation of God's power. I used to think it was something more than that but truly that contains everything!!!!!!!! Gods hand is all around us. It lifts us up and guides us. Isaiah 41:10+13 With Him leading the way we can baptize people! He is the good shepherd and already knows where His lost sheep are and does lead us to them. He leads us over obstacles and ravines that lie in our path. He is triumphant over all and we are called in His Holy name.
 
I bear you my testimony that Jesus is The Christ. He knows everything about you, about me, and about his other children. He stands ready and waiting to give us the victory that He so valiantly won. We can accomplish nothing without His sustaining power. I leave these things with you, as the Spirit of God has taught them to me, in His name even Jesus Christ. Amen.
 
Love you so much!

Sister Clendening

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

about her transfer....


Sister Clendening wasn't transfered this week, and will be staying in her current area for at least 6 more weeks. More information to follow. She is currently with Sister Gandolph again (a previous companion) and is excited about the work. She sends her love to everyone, and hopes to have time to write this coming week!

Sister Gandolph was Emily's trainer. This picture of of them from their first transfer together!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Seth's letter to Sister Clendening

So sweet of Seth! This warms the heart and lifts the spirits! I hope she likes it!

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

The one time adventure...

The bike adventure was a one time deal. ahahhaha Did I not ever mention that? WOW! Talk about funniest/worst experience ever! It only lasted one day because it was so unproductive. I rode in the fullest skirt I had and the bike was a youth bike with short little pedals. As I tried to cycle around I got no power out of the motion and as I tried to increase the revolutions it would cause my skirt to fly up! hahaha- That day we maybe saw 1 person and in the mean time were nasty sweaty and drawing un-needed attention (causing members in the area to call the Elders and ask why the Sisters were on bycicles. ahahahhahahaa!) But WAY COOOL!!! Totally the ultimate missionary experience-to be on a bike! I made history! And people were gracious to talk to us...because I think they had pity on our pathetic state. :) yay! move the work along! But now we have a car again and can move around!



Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Letter Excerpt from October 4


I love getting your encouragement and hearing that you are proud of what I am doing (and Trying to do)! General Conference was so enlightening to me! I know the thinsg that I will change and need to fix in my character.
---Insert about Sister Nybo. She is great at picking up on pretty much any quote that I reference. She is very easy going...NOW that we understand each other. Really it's funny...not much has changed...we still act mostly the same way (obviously we are the SAME people) but we trust and love each other now. We are willing to work around each others needs and flaws (now that we know what those are) WE know what each excpects and wants. This will be very helpful for any other kind of a relationship I am in. Yay for learning! and hmmm...she's pretty willing to go along with the crazy ideas I have. AND!!! now I feel like I can have those crazy ideas...so that undoes my feeling stifled :) and! that's evident in the room rearranging that we did this morning! Transfers are next Monday but....pretty sure we are not getting transfered. I hope not!!! It took a lot of work to get to where we are now and we are up for the challenge that Gig Hargbor presents! The work will go forward now unhindered by self centered concerns.
There were talks directed right Susan* -who we are trying to teach- and I hope to be able to watch them with her! I HIGHLY recommend Richard G Scott's talk and Dallin H Oaks' talk. They were probably my favorite. And then Elder Anderson's too? or it  might have been Neilson. hmmm conference-run-together moment! oh AND!!! Who was it...oh! Pres Eyring sun morning talk reminded me so much about the Maxwell talk "Content with the things allotted unto us" which I still love so much! The Lord truly teaches his children in their own needed way. I am so excited to start living up to the personal direction I have received!
 *Names have been changed

Hold to the gospel light!


Sunday, October 3, 2010

 Has it really only been four months??! Oh the lessons learned so far!


Saturday, October 2, 2010